I’m going to die alone

We’ve all had those days where we’re pretty sure we’re going to die alone.  Today was one of those days for me.  Dating in 2010 is hard enough, now add on that I run my own gym that keeps me busy before and after most peoples work days, oh and weekends, plus I train to compete in a crazy sport that most men don’t know about and top it off with I eat clean and don’t drink.  Yup….I’m gonna die alone.  ha!

In all seriousness though it is tough to realize the sacrifices you make to follow your dream.  You sacrifice your free time for others.  You sacrifice your social life to train.  You sacrifice any hope dating since most 28 year old men I meet are still in the bachelor phase (I can party every weekend and get any girl I want) which I left behind years ago.

And I use the word sacrafice, and I’m sure many of you are thinking that’s a bad thing.  Sometimes sacrifice can be good.  Look what has come from my sacrifice….my own business which I love, the ability to compete and train in a sport I love and fitting in a size two jean is never a sacrifice.

Ok….so I don’t see my friends every weekend, but they all know that I love them dearly and that they all are still very important to me.  And as dying alone, I’m not that worried about it.  It’ll happen when it’s supposed to happen and until it does I’m going to continue to live my life.  After all, life happens when you least expect it.

4 thoughts on “I’m going to die alone

  1. Not like you have ANY time to create something like this but an Xfit social website for dating to just to meet other people in the same eating/workout mode as friends? Finding a way to meet others in other box’s, locally, regionally or even nationally would be awesome don’t you think? Its hard enough to meet people, especially paleo xfit people who share the same goals. As a rule most don’t date inside their own box in case it gets weird so then what? I share your frustration is all I am sayin….I am sure many xfitters do too!

  2. I’m 28. I don’t smoke, drink, or anything like that. I eat healthy and I train for martial arts and stunts for movies. However, depending on the person, humans don’t gravitate to what’s good for them but instead what they are strongly attracted to, and unless you are without scars in your upbringing most likely what you are strongly attracted to is not what is good for you. I have had those days MANY times so I can relate. Most women I meet tend to be unavailable or just not ready. I honestly believe that my circumstance is a result of my poor choices and if I want them to change then I have to make better choices… that means not necessarily going for the obvious all the time or the prettiest or the most wealthy. It’s easier said than done of course, but that’s life.

  3. Right now, a nice guy who doesn’t go to the gym and has shitty taste in everything sounds amazing.

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