There’s one thing I can’t handle in my life and that’s other peoples ‘shit’ and by ‘shit’ i mean shit talking. Now I’m not saying it’s bad to vent about a situation or a person or what ever, but as long as you understand you have a role to play in it and you look for the lessons learned I’m game.
What I can’t handle is when venting turns into team building…. as in I don’t like this person you shouldn’t either. They hurt me you should hate them for that. They screwed me so they’re going to screw you too.
Guess what….. that’s your shit….. don’t make it mine. I will listen and support and love on you but I will not carry your shit. Everyone’s relationships with other people is just that….THEIR relationships. What one person does to you doesn’t mean they will do to others and vice versa. What someone does to me does not mean they’ll do it to you.
So I ask….no rather beg…. ‘don’t make your shit my shit’ ….. I have enough of my own.